Getting REAL.

A control freak’s guide to going with the flow.

“Just go with it.” This simple yet overtly complicated direction and piece of advice that I often get from well-meaning friends baffles my control-freak mind. I never quite understood how someone could just be okay with just seeing what happens. That, of course, wasn’t until I realized that life is way more fun when you… Continue reading A control freak’s guide to going with the flow.

Getting REAL.

Things you should get from friendships in your 20s

If there’s one thing I’ve learned over the past few months, it’s that there’s a whole host of things that I need out of my friendships in my early to mid-twenties. Unfortunately, a lot of that was learned through trial and error. I had to go through a lot of sh*t with people to see… Continue reading Things you should get from friendships in your 20s

Getting REAL. · Soulmates + Bumble Dates

True Life: I’ve been ghosted.

Kasia & I have discovered over the past few months together that we have a lot in common. And more than the fact that we're both writers. We've gone through a lot of similar experiences over the years that we both swear make us the strong-willed ladies we are today. I'm happy to share with… Continue reading True Life: I’ve been ghosted.

Soulmates + Bumble Dates

Social media single-handedly saved & ruined my dating life.

I graduated from the 8th grade in 2007. To think about how much has changed in the world of social media over the past ten years alone is baffling to me. When I first started talking to boys and had my first “boyfriend” in the seventh grade, our conversations began on AIM. We built connections… Continue reading Social media single-handedly saved & ruined my dating life.